mental health

The Way She Feels

By Courtney Cook

(5 / 5)

TW: self harm, suicidal thoughts, drug use

First off, I want to stress that this book is a memoir, so if you’re looking for a bunch of specific facts or advice about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), this might not be the book you’re looking for. I’m not a big nonfiction reader, so sometimes books that are very factual and clinical just don’t keep my attention. In The Way She Feels, Courtney Cook shares her personal experiences as a person with BPD. Obviously, not everyone with the condition will have the same experiences, but I appreciated the honesty and openness she shared about some very difficult-to-discuss experiences and behaviors that she had. I really liked the varied format of the book, with colorful drawings throughout. It made the book feel more inviting. Even more text-based stories in the book had illustrations, so it didn’t feel overwhelming. This book gave me a glimpse into her mind that helps me understand what a person with BPD might experience and feel. And I think coming out of this, you see that despite the obstacles she has faced, she is a person that feels and loves strongly. That things can get better even if your teenage years are rough. That so much of the stigma that media associates with BPD just isn’t accurate, and it’s not fair to only associate it with serial killers and “crazy”. And that even people from a good upbringing might have to face mental health challenges that aren’t their fault.

The Prince & the Apocalypse

by Kara McDowell

Coming Soon on July 11, 2023!

(5 / 5)

Wow, I absolutely loved this book! It was one of those books that captured me from the very first page and was so hard to put down, even when it was well past my bedtime, and I was losing sleep. The book flowed beautifully and kept me captivated until the end. Who knew a book about the apocalypse could feel so… fun? There’s action, adventure, romance and a dash of comedy that feels like the perfect combination. And this book filled me with emotions that I could feel long after finishing the last page. I think anyone who likes young adult romance will enjoy this book.

The story follows the perspective of Wren Wheeler, the girl who always had a plan until it all fell apart during her senior trip to London. By chance she meets the (fictional) crown prince of the UK, and when she misses her flight back to the US amidst an impending apocalypse, she asks for his help to get back home to Chicago. It’s quite an adventure from there as the two travel across Europe together. I really enjoyed the pairing of these two characters who seemed so different from each other at first but ultimately brought out the best in each other. The story felt so real and really made me feel. I was so sad for this book to end, and it didn’t end quite the way I would have liked, but… well, I don’t want to give anything away, so you’ll just have to find out on your own.

The Prince & the Apocalypse was my first book to read by Kara McDowell, but I would love to read more of her books in the future.

I received a free advance copy of this book through NetGalley. All of the opinions in this review are completely my own.

May 1, 2023 by danimae1981 Fiction Kindle Romance Young Adult 0

If I Can Give You That

By Michael Gray Bulla

(5 / 5)

First off, I’ll admit that I’m not exactly the intended audience of this book as a 40-something cisgender heterosexual female – but as a mom to a trans/nonbinary child, I enjoy reading books that can help give me a better perspective of their experience. This book is written well, and I really enjoyed reading it. I think it would be a great book for teens to read.

The story follows Gael, a teen boy who is transgender, but I love that there is a whole cast of characters representing different parts of the LGBTQ+ community who have their own stories to share. I found Gael to be a very relatable character, especially since I experience some similar anxieties that he does. I especially found it interesting to follow Gael’s exploration of his sexuality, since I know there can be a lot of stigma about this topic for trans people, even within the LGBTQ+ community. I also think Gael’s perspective was good because it helped me gain a better understanding about gender dysphoria. I enjoyed watching Gael grow considerably over the course of the story in a realistic way.

This book is so much more than just a transgender story though, which gave it a lot of depth. Gael lives with his mom, who struggles with mental illness, and some difficult topics are encountered along the way. It also takes a close look at family bonds, as Gael holds some strong feelings toward his father, who he hardly has any contact with since his parents’ divorce. Plus, there’s all the experiences that many teens face in high school, like planning for the future and submitting college applications.

A special “thank you” to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for the free review copy of this book. I really enjoyed reading it, and all opinions expressed in my review are completely my own.

April 18, 2023 by danimae1981 Fiction Kindle Young Adult 0

Love & Panic

By Raina Ash

(5 / 5)

TW: mental illness, alcoholism, suicidal thoughts

This book pulled me in almost as soon as I started reading it, and I found it very hard to put down. It follows 2 main characters, Natalie and Dean, who are each struggling with mental health and trauma from their past. As someone who has anxiety and has experienced panic attacks, I thought the descriptions were spot-on and realistic. Natalie and Dean end up meeting in an unconventional way, but I loved how they each accepted the other for who they were and didn’t judge. The story was interesting with a lot of ups and downs that kept me invested in the story. I was glad to see a lot of growth in both of the main characters over the course of the story while also being realistic about how these things take a lot of work, time, and sometimes you fall backwards in the process, but that’s okay. The book left me with a feeling of hope and a positive outlook about a topic that often holds a lot of stigma. I really enjoyed the romance aspects of the story as well and found that it came to a satisfying conclusion. There’s a couple steamy scenes, but it’s not excessive. I thoroughly enjoyed this book! A special thanks to the author, publisher and NetGalley for the free copy of the book and the opportunity to provide my honest feedback!

February 17, 2023 by danimae1981 Fiction Kindle Romance 0